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Lush Encounters and Stories

Accounts written by Lush fans about their first-hand experiences meeting the band members and going to Lush shows, offering a more authentic perspective than stories in the press; also some recollections from family members. Some of these were submitted directly to me, and others I found on the web. Common themes in many of these accounts: Lush were extremely cool, genuine, kind, funny, humble people; Chris' tragedy hit many fans very hard; Lush is fondly remembered and deeply missed.

 

Well, I've actually met Emma three times. The first was at the Luminaire in Kilburn, the first Sing-Sing show I went to. I actually just said hello to her. On that occasion I had a long chat with Lisa. I was quite nervous about meeting Emma, as I've been a fan for so long. I think she wasn't feeling well on that day, because we literally just said hello to each other, and there were loads of other people around vying for her attention.

The second time I met her was last summer at that show with Robin Guthrie. I went up to her when she arrived outside the venue and introduced myself. I thought she probably wouldn't remember me from the Luminaire, as it was really dark inside. We actually ended up talking about the weather, as it was really hot that day!

The third time I met her was at her house. You know that Lush logo, the pink round thing on the front of Lovelife? She was selling it on eBay! Except, I didn't know she was the seller! It was pickup only and the seller lived in Cricklewood, London, so I did wonder at the time if she might be the seller, who else would have one! Anyway, no one else even bid on it, so I got the item! I was really delighted when I found out she was the seller! I was quite nervous about meeting her, so I was glad I'd met her a few weeks earlier at that show because it didn't seem quite so nerve wracking. Actually, it was really nice to meet her that way because I was able to have a long conversation with her....Anyway, she's a really lovely person. She made me a cup of tea, how many people can say that a celebrity they really admire has done that!

- Jen G. of PVSG

 

Note for my cousin Chris, who was my hero and inspired me to get into the drums (still got his old kit from very early Lush days) note to all who were at the memorial in Kendal last year and saw my sketch band play alongside the other much more credible punk bands (nice lyrics Larger) and prime drumming Kez. Still think about you often Chris and always appreciating your magic drumming on De-luxe, miss our Christmas japes too. Nice to see there are still Lush fans remembering.

- Thomas Acland

 

.....I got the [subway poster of the Split album cover] at their gig at Prince's old Glam Slam club. The speakers blew out after about the fourth song and I guess the band and the band's management felt bad so they started handing out goodies like CDs, promos, posters, shirts and food and drink from their dressing room to the people in the pit. When the band found out that the PA system wasn't going to be able to be fixed that night, they rescheduled the concert for the following night. I was cool with that because that meant another night of Lush and I got the subway poster. Plus, I met Miki the following night and bought her a beer. She was at the back of the club, I think with a bodyguard, but the bodyguard wasn't right on top of her. Anyway, she was checking out the opening band, That Dog (the night before, Weezer opened) and I just went up to her and gave her a beer and told her I really love the band and she and Emma were the reason why I started playing guitar. She was sweet about it.

Anyway, flash forward a couple years later. Lush is at the Tower Records on Sunset Blvd in West Hollywood and they're doing an in-store concert and signing for Lovelife afterwards--for 100 fans. I get there early in the morning, get my wristband that ensures me I can get in later that night and show up around 9pm with the 99 other fans. The gig is amazing—I was upfront, eye-level and they did about 5 songs. Afterwards, we all get in a line and make our way to a long table where all four band members are signing things the fans bought. That's where I got that poster signed. Emma and Phil were pretty quiet, smiled and said hello. Chris and Miki were great though. They joked around with me and then I said something stupid to Miki like, "Miki, do you remember me? I was the guy who bought you a beer at Glam Slam on the second night while you were checking out the opening act."

Then Chris said, "Yeah, and now he wants you to pay him back, so pay up you miser." Of course, the band laughed—it was a great moment for me because I loved the band so much.

Of course, the sad part was that I heard over the radio one night that Chris was found dead the day before. The news hit me like a ton of bricks. So depressing.

- Michael A

 

One of the best moments in my life (music-related or otherwise! LOL) was when Miki replied to my interview questions for my music fanzine Stratosphere way back in 1994. I had noticed that Lush was going to play the Trocadero in Philadelphia, and I couldn't go to the show, so I dashed off a hand-written letter of questions for the band members, with a cover letter to the club, and sent it, hoping that somehow it would reach the band.

Over three months went by without a reply, and to be honest, I was hoping for a reply, but not expecting one. Then one day I opened my mailbox and found a mysterious envelope with stamps from Finland, and my heart skipped a beat - and then, upon opening said envelope, I actually screamed out loud in amazement (and I am not a demonstrative person, under normal circumstances), because lo and behold, it was my question list for Lush, and it was filled out all over with Miki's hand-writing! If that wasn't enough of a thrill, Miki had also enclosed a few photos from their tour! Ah, I remember it all like it was yesterday..."

- Jen of Stratosphere Fanzine Yahoo Group

 

I started dating a girl in June, 1996. She knew I was a HUGE Lush fan, and she surprised me with tickets to the [Asylum in Toledo, Ohio] show on August 24th. My birthday is August 25th, and this was my 25th birthday present! I'd been to the Asylum (a theatre converted to a large dance club) several times, so I was very excited to see them for the third time, in a local setting. The Eels opened for them (they were great, BTW), and when Lush came on, there simply was only 100 or so people there (maybe 150.) I was able to stand about 15 feet away from center stage, with everyone clear as day, right in front of me. The best part for me was how they sounded exactly like they did on their albums - they really played well. The girlfriend is now my wife (of almost 10 years) and to this day, she said that of all of the many concerts she'd seen, that the Lush show was definitely one of the best. It will always be very special to me, and knowing that they only played a few shows after that intimate experience, makes it all the more incredible to me. I'm certain that my first birthday present from my wife will always be the best.

- Steve Molloy (Orri~)

 

I caught Lush live twice, met Miki at the bar and said "would you like a drink" she said "yeah..” then "no, f**k it , I’ll buy you one." I said "No!" Anyway I got her and Emma a pint of cider, Chris came over and said Hello and they said thanks for your support, hugged me, and went off to finalize the gig. And they were ACE!!!! Saw Miki after the gig and she shouted, "Enjoy?" and I shouted "Amazing" and it was thumbs up and waves! Just nice people with a talent, I always remembered what a down to earth normal bunch they seemed... I don’t think they realized how good they actually were.


 

....I was fortunate enough to interview her for a magazine I used to write for, and I got to spend the afternoon with Phil and Emma. (I didn't get pictures with them) She was extremely nice and really cool to the fans after the show. (I got my stuff signed then.).....I don' have the interview anymore--Orbit Magazine was a monthly free magazine on newsprint. We went out of business in 2000. I wish I'd saved the tape.....
I don't remember a lot of the questions, but I do remember asking them about touring with the Goo Goo Dolls--specifically, why were they doing it--it seemed like the wrong mix of bands.  Miki responded that they were talked into it by the record company and would have rather toured with Elvis Costello, because the crowds would have been more receptive. That's why she signed the set list for me "We've come on tour by mistake"

 

I met them all at a concert back in 1993 in support of Spooky. Miki was nice, as was Phil - he's sexy if I may say so myself. LOL

- Raz


 

I saw Lush 8/31/96 at the Trocadero in Philadelphia. It was only my third concert ever I think. I didn't know much about Lush, someone said they were good and I was aching to see any concert I could at the time. I had only heard a few songs from Lovelife and thought they were good so I figured what the heck.

Being only 16 years old I had to beg my parents to drive me there. They didn't want to because it was a school night I think. But I made up a story and said I won tickets on the radio and couldn't turn down an offer like this and they finally caved in. If they hadn't I don't think I would have ever forgave them!

The opening band was the Eels and they were really cool, I always thought so. We waited for Lush to take the stage for over an hour and everyone thought something was wrong. Seems Miki had a case of diarrhea. Before the last song before the encore (Ladykillers) she said would again rush again to the toilet.

I remember the show like it was yesterday. The atmosphere, the lighting, the music was ethereal. It was what Lush did best. It was the only show I've ever been to where I felt intoxicated in the music and not on a chemical substance.

I craved more Lush in the months after the show and was hoping they'd tour again. Then you know what happened. Kinda forget about them for a year or two after that and focused on other bands, but eventually I returned to Lush's music more than ever. Especially when music in general went downhill in '98 or so.

But when I look back at all the concerts I ever saw, and there were MANY, this was probably the best with a few close seconds. It is something I will never forget.

 

I saw them thrice in 94 at Manchester Uni (I think) and 96 at Liverpool Lomax and Manchester again and I spoke to Miki, I was a bit drunk and I think I bought her a pint of cider, she was very gracious, I think Chris was around too at Manchester but a mixture of cider and the years have made it all a bit muggy. Three of my fave gigs ever though! Great Memories.

- Andy Von Pip of the VPME blog
and We Miss Miki website

 

I'm old enough to have seen Lush live twice. The first time was (if I remember well) at the Pavillon de la Danse (Paris: I'm French) circa 990. Miki didn't have red hair at that time but was prettiest than ever... I was standing at first row, I know what I'm telling you about! Steve Rippon was playing bass that year, a few weeks after "Gala" release. I was dazzled by this show, it helps me to recall how good their music was (that's why we were there, after all). The second Lush gig I went to occurred at the New Morning club in 1994 I think. I can remember Miki Berenyi coming through the audience straight from the bar (did anyone notice her there?) to the stage, walking quietly with a thoughtful expression on her face (AND red hair), she looked the more concentrated. They played their last album plus older Guthrie-produced material. No one jumped at her neck when she was coming amongst us (we were no more than 50 or 100), this was no time anymore for any kind of phoney Beatlemania. Nice. it was a stab on my heart when I've heard the unexpected and tragical end of Chris Acland two years or so later.
 
 

At the Lush show at Maxwell's I got the set list signed. I was standing in front of Emma, and it was real easy to get the list. After their set, they just hung around the club, talking to fans, signing things, having pictures taken - it was great! Miki is definitely the most outgoing. I don't think that there was one person there that she didn't say something to! Miki does have a cool attitude... Miki and Emma are both incredible song writers.

- Aaron

 

The remaining accounts come from Starlust's Lush Page. Although I can't vouch for their authenticity, but there are some great stories here, especially the one from Chris' sister-in-law. I left the names since they were already published.
 
A couple years ago, on the Spooky tour, I followed Lush around Italy and Germany (as best I could, mind you!) At one show in Germany, the opening band were complete crap. They were using an accordion to complement their guitars! While I was remarking to myself about the nauseating qualities of this band, I looked over and Miki was standing right next to me, looking as confused as I was. I said to her, "Whatever you guys do, don't use an accordion." she replied, "It's fucking dreadful, isn't it?!" Then we smoked a cigarette and she thanked me for coming all the way from Italy to see them.
During the show, one of my t-shirts got ripped off, so after the show, I caught Miki just as she was going to the back and asked her since I came all this way and my shirt got nicked, could she give me a rebate? She came back out with TWO shirts, and Emma's guitar picks! I'll never forget that Lush rule.


Did you know that Miki is the computer type but she only plays game I know this because I saw an interview with her in Amiga power! She also wears black knickers I know this because when I last went to see them she got the guitar caught on her skirt and it came right up. That's all I got to say.

-Stuart Dawson.

 

I'm Ruth Acland, Chris' sister-in-law. I'm married to his older brother Francis.

I don't know what to say, except that I decided to see if Lush was still around, or if they had anything to say about Chris that I somehow haven't already heard about.

I last saw my dear brother-in-law May of '96, when we were visiting England after my father's death. Chris seems alright to me; I hadn't an inkling there were any problems. He was always such a sweet brother-in-law to me, and he paid me the single biggest compliment when he said he wanted to marry someone like his 'sister-in-law'. For once I had done something right in my life, and I totally approved of Grace. She was a sweet girl and I thought 'this might be the one'.

We used to receive postcards from Chris from all over the United States and the world. Of course, I still have those postcards. They were always cheerful and upbeat, but he did speak a lot about being tired and always seeming to be in a hurry.

Anyway, I decided to check up on Lush or Chris on the internet, to see if there are any clues as to why he did what he did, or what the source of his unhappiness was. Francis and I invited him to stay here with us in Iowa if he needed to get away for a while. He was always welcome to stay with us; Chris had his special 'open door' policy here at our old Iowa farmhouse. However, he did stay with us for about a week in the autumn of '92. I first met him at our old place, another old farm house, and we were immediately bonded as family.

I will always miss Chris. He was a sweet friend and fun uncle. I wish I knew what more I could have done for him, or if there were any signs that things were wrong. I wish desperately that he was still around. He is sorely missed by his sister-in-law.

-Love, Ruth Acland

 

The reason I'm writing this however, is that your page reminded me of when I saw them at the 9:30 club (here in Washington D.C.). In between songs Miki changed guitars and asked the crowd, "Do any of you use the Internet?" A bunch of ppl boo'ed and then she said, "Neither do we, it's a bloody joke, it's a waste of time."
You might not believe me, but she really did say it... It freaked me out when I heard it, being a net-citizen, myself... But the show was still great :)

- Unknown.


I was at an amusement park and I met Miki. She signed my jeans and I asked her to marry me. That's it. My life's really pathetic?

-Mike Bowers

 


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